A myth is an idea that many people have that isn't totally true. Here are some of the false ideas that some people have about Sisters and their lives:

1.  Taking vows of poverty, chastity, and obedience is strange.
The vowed life is a richly blessed life. Each of the three vows helps the Sister to center herself in God and to live Gospel values. While each of these promises is counter-cultural and sometimes involve self-sacrifices, they are also a means to the happiness of a life of selfless giving.

2. Sisters, Brothers, and Priests are perfect or were born “holy.”
Sisters, Brothers, and Priests are human beings who are in different stages of their growth in imitation of Jesus. They challenge and support each other within their dioceses and communities to continue to allow God to mold them, like a potter forms clay, into His image. There is holiness in all people who seek God, but it is not automatic for anyone!

3.  Religious life is a life of suffering.
Suffering is a part of all life, regardless of one's chosen vocation. Understanding that God desires our happiness, we do not choose suffering for the sake of suffering. Our faith assures us that God can bring good out of even the most painful situations, and so we can find peace and deep-down joy even when we are hurting. Religious Life invites us to selfless giving and grateful living, and these are ingredients for happiness.

4.  Religious life is boring.
There are some boring moments in religious life as in any life, but there are far too many opportunities and experiences for it to be a boring life. Although they usually work hard, Sisters have fun, too! They have hobbies, and friends, and celebrations, and rewarding group efforts in which to be a part, and vacations.

5.  Religious life is lonely.
All people are lonely sometimes. We often are reminded of St. Augustine 's insight: “Our hearts are restless, O God, until they rest in You.”

Most of the time, Sisters are far too involved with people in our community, ministry, families, and friends to be lonely. When Sisters occasionally experience loneliness, they often find that these times serve as springboards toward increased reflection and prayer, toward a deeper relationship with God, and a better understanding of themselves and of other people.